After the breakdown of his long-term relationship, Gary’s life changed dramatically. In his 50s, he suddenly found himself without a home – with the added heartbreak of having to move away from his daughter. For a short while he was able to stay with his sister, but that option soon fell through.
With nowhere else to go, Gary turned to DENS and was referred to The Elms hostel by the Day Centre.
After a few months, he was offered a place in Move On accommodation. The shared house was ideal for Gary, a quiet and independent person who preferred his own space. While he didn’t need intensive support, his Key Worker provided valuable help with navigating systems and paperwork that may have otherwise been overwhelming.
At the time, Gary was unemployed, having been made redundant from his previous job at a warehouse. The Job Centre placed growing pressure on him to return to work – something that became a turning point in his journey. He decided to reach out to his old employer on the off chance they had any vacancies. To his surprise and relief, they welcomed him back.
Restarting work gave Gary a renewed sense of purpose. Not only did it bring financial security, but it also helped boost his confidence. His Key Worker saw a clear change; he began taking greater pride in his appearance and showed a more optimistic outlook on life.
Throughout this challenging time, Gary remained a dedicated father. He kept in regular contact with his daughter and maintained visitation rights.
Once he felt ready, Gary moved into his own home with the support of the Resettlement service. This was a place just for him, and conveniently close to work. Having only previously lived with a partner, it was a big milestone.
Reflecting on the support he received, Gary shared: “DENS has really helped me. I don’t know what I would have done, as I didn’t have anywhere else to stay. The support I received was amazing and helped me settle in the first place that has ever been just mine.”
We’re very proud of Gary’s progress, from experiencing homelessness to becoming an active member of the community – working full-time and happily living in his own home. We will continue to support him until he feels ready to leave DENS’ services and live fully independently.
Please note: Gary’s name, image and details of his story have been changed to protect his anonymity.
Story published 19th June 2025.